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Mediating Ways
Most of us think about mediation as an intervention to resolve a dispute
and if that is happening to you our mediation service service can help out.
But mediation skills are not only useful in resolving a dispute. Creativity
and innovation are not borne out of sameness but out of difference and
diversity. Too often the resulting change leads to disruptive conflict. But
that need not be the way. If we accept conflict as the normal symptom of
complex reality then using the skills of mediation should be the normal
response and not just something we reach for in extremis - it is something
for all of us to use in the course of our daily work.
This is the alternative viewpoint we have branded as mediating ways. Most
leaders today have heard of, and practice, the coaching style of
managment. If, in your work, diversity and difference are the normal
state of things then you will want them to contribute innovation and
creativity as part of healthy organisational life. In our paradigm mediating
ways is not just re-ordering the disordered but it is part and parcel of a
positive management and leadership culture which is custom-made for
today’s fast changing business environment. The mediating way in
management is a true complement to the coaching style of management.
We can support organisations to develop individuals and teams in the way
in which conflict can be recognised, managed and used creatively. These
use the following approaches:
Conflict Coaching
Conflict Styles
Executive Coaching
Team Coaching
MBTI - Personality Profiles
Mediating Ways
For his Masters in Mediation and
Conflict Resolution Robin wrote a
dissertation, Mediating Ways, about a
study of organisations which had
trained staff in mediation. The bodies
while positive about the benefits of
mediation training and its cultural
influences on their work were using it
more as their style of working than in
any increase in formal mediations they
carried out. The study identified the
benefits as: business as usual,
strategic focus and work culture.
Robin’s proposition is that if we limit
mediation’s role to dispute resolution
as if conflict is pathology, we are
missing a trick. It is in the complex
realities of diversity in organisational
life that mediation will find a greater
role. Mediating ways has the potential
to add value by working in the grain of
daily interactions and business
culture. A narrow focus on dispute
resolution would limit mediation’s
potential. As a way to develop
relationships, work practices and
change management mediating ways
can become a management style to
complement the coaching style.
Mediating Ways - the story
Interested in exploring Robin’s ideas
on mediating ways? Please click here
for a copy of his paper.
Mediation, Facilitation and Coaching