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Understanding Conflict Style
A conflict style indicator helps you to learn about your preference when responding to conflict with
others.
Conflict Style Indicators
There are two widely used conflict style indicators: the Thomas Kilmann Conflict Mode Instrument
(TKI) and the Kraybill Conflict Style Inventory (KCSI). Both are derived from the Mouton Blake
Managerial Grid which developed five leadership styles based on a concern for people and a concern
for production.
Although we may find from using the indicator that we prefer some styles of dealing with conflict to
others there is no right or wrong to the profiles that emerge. The objective is to develop flexibility
and to use the appropriate response to a conflict situation depending on your objective in the
conflict you find yourself. By using conflict style awareness in connection with a coaching couse we
can help you develop the skills of being flexible in the use of conflict styles.
Ways we can help:
By taking either the TKI or the KCSI you can learn about your conflict management style. When you
know how you respond to conflict situations you are better prepared for turning conflict into a
constructive experience. In this way you will develop an understanding of how to resolve existing
conflict situations and prevent future issues from turning into negative conflict.
Understanding your conflict style helps
you:-
manage conflict
develop interpersonal skills
make effective decision
develop influencing skills
develop negotiating skills
impove team working
line manage staff
Conflict Styles
Understand your conflict style and the
repertoire of styles. Develop insight
into what works best and when.
As conflict - difference - is here in the world,
as we cannot avoid it, we should, I think use
it. Instead of condemning it, we should set it
to work for us.
Mary Parker Follett
Mediation, Facilitation and Coaching